Sex & Relationships

Can Love be Learnt?

In the olden days and part of these new days there was such a thing called arranged marriage. Families would come together and discuss the marriage of their kids without the kids consent. And it didnt matter if you knew or loved the person you were set to marry, you could always learn to love… Continue reading Can Love be Learnt?

Sex & Relationships

Open Relationships, Do They Work??

Yes and No. They are for some people and others not so much. A lot of people see it as allowed cheating and that's why open relationships get a bad rep. And few people see it as a way to be who they are openly. Because we know some people just cannot do monogamy. So… Continue reading Open Relationships, Do They Work??

Sex & Relationships

How Do You Know You’ve Moved On?

A lot of people have been filling my head lately and they had me almost convinced I wasnt over my ex. I almost believed them but then when he and I had a conversation about him being in love with this girl, I realized yeah I was over him. I realize I'm over him actually… Continue reading How Do You Know You’ve Moved On?

Me Personally

Being Queer (Part 1), A Sorta Coming Out Story 🌈

So hey there, here's some news I'm queer. Queer being anything but straight. I'm attracted to both men and women, l have been since 2012 but that was still lowkey. There are so many terms under the LGBTQ ++ that it gets confusing. Once upon a time I thought I was bi-curious then fluid then… Continue reading Being Queer (Part 1), A Sorta Coming Out Story 🌈

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Crazy Things People Do in the Name of Love

It's that time again. That time filled with hearts and flowers and teddies and chocolate, where there's red everywhere and love is in the air. Valentine's day is around the corner. Valentine's day, a ridiculous holiday that couples use to appreciate each other and get each other cheesy gifts and do cheesy shit. Usually the… Continue reading Crazy Things People Do in the Name of Love

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Can Exes Be Friends?

So a while ago I posted a photo of my ex on my status to celebrate his birthday and half of my contact list was surprised, confused, suspicious and whatnot. I didnt get it. I'm friends with all my exes. But apparently that's not really possible especially if you really loved the said ex and… Continue reading Can Exes Be Friends?

Sex & Relationships

Is there cheating that can be justified??

The answer is NO. According to the many friends I asked there's no cheating that can be justified. There's never a good enough reason to cheat, sure it is forgivable but not justifiable. Whatever the problem your relationship has, you talk about it or you leave the relationship. There's absolutely no reason to cheat. I… Continue reading Is there cheating that can be justified??

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What Are We?

New age relationships have so many rules and somehow very little rules. There are so many titles and labels and different kinds of relationships. It's no longer just your simple boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, there's twists and exceptions and allowances. Honestly as time goes on, establishing the relationship will get trickier and will need more… Continue reading What Are We?